All crypto projects that at least pretend to have a community are on Discord. You should be there too. Even if it is too much to read. Even if it is chaos. It is where it is happening.

There are a couple of Discord channels with shadowy super coders or with at least with a very active group of crypto natives who are willing to answer questions.

Ethereum Devs

Prysmatic Labs

EthStaker

General DeFi Questions

Index Coop

Bankless